Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Sharing when I'm stupid.

I don't like to share things if it's a situation I created myself and even worse if it's a situation I created out of my own stupidity.

The honest truth is the fact that I have closed my business and let the buyer move in and open his own business and I don't have a signed contract for him to actually buy the business yet.  Because of a series of issues that's just the way it happened.  It's a small town and a person's word is still considered a done deal.  The problem is we ran into issues with the coolers, issues that are resulting in the necessity to replace both compressors.  Well it's been a lot of back and forth between us, it got uglier in my head than it got in real life and it's been eating me alive from the inside out because I was afraid he was going to walk away from the deal because of this issue.

Well after getting some legal advice about the situation and confronting the buyer with what the lawyer told me we are on the same page and there are no hurt feelings anywhere.  He thought I was getting mad at him, which I really was, but there was no reason to.  It's been a crazy situation, but it's all done now.  We're meeting with the lawyer on Friday to sign the purchase agreement and management contract and finally get the final paperwork rolling.  Yes, it's been delayed this long, but we're finally going to get this underway.

I've been a nervous wreck for the last week while we sorted this out and it turns out I was getting nervous for nothing.  I am a little upset that we won't be able to close on his loan until roughly the end of August the way things sit, but I know it will work out in the end.

My newest plans are to move to Cinci at the end of July.  I'm in the process of setting an exact date.  Julio and I are also trying to plan two days to go to Cinci to get the construction and wiring of my new bedroom out of the way, but that's going to depend on the time we have available and the funds I have available to do the project. 

Well there isn't much to say really that's on my mind anymore.  I'm sure I'll think of something again sometime soon, but for now I'm done.


  1. you know, I think we all do this. Hold back the things we have done that might make us look stupid. We always think ourselves more foolish then we really are, if you figure how not to be will you tell me?

  2. Today is one of those days I really wish you were closer (physically). We could meet for coffee and verbally bitch-slap each other back into functioning reality.

    Hope things start feeling right for you soon!